Jake & his story

Our fifth gathering was at Trisha O Haire’s house. This was the gathering that I wish we had a greater turnout. While it’s not my place to say that any one person’s need is more important than another, the reality that life is short was demonstrated through the story of a little boy named Jake. Trisha’s close friend, Sara, was struggling with her son as he battled cancer. With a lot of courage, Jake’s family rallied around him with love and support while they waited to to see if his bone marrow transplant was successful. That was the stage set for our fundraising efforts. There were about twelve women present. We raised a little under $500.00 dollars. The money was for Jake’s mom. We just wanted her to have a little money in her pocket to do whatever she wanted. It’s no secret that this mom’s every bit of energy and attention went toward her family. Sarah used that money to plan a “Perfect Day” for Jake outside of the hospital. The thrill of being picked up in a limo was fantastic. Jake had an incredible day, and there was promise in his prognosis. A very short time after his “Perfect Day” Jake was brought back to the hospital where he passed away. What does one say about the loss of a child? There are no words. There is, however, comfort in knowing that we gathered and helped bring a little joy during a very difficult time. I used to be attached to the idea of having a happy ending…Jake has taught me that it’s the in between stuff that matters the most. God Bless you Jake.